An Uncommon Love Story

Posted by on February 17, 2013 in About Writing | 8 comments


accidents of birth-smallI have suggested the notion before that the stories about where novels come from can be at least as interesting as the novels themselves. It was true for Suffer the Little Children and even more so for my latest work, a trilogy entitled Accidents of Birth. This trilogy was spawned through a character that was born from my need and a Mary Oliver poem. I was once again in one of those places we call darkness, where connection seems so tenuous and patience all but exhausted. My beloved husband ached for me, but never having traveled the path I took, he understandably could not imagine the pain or where it came from. Nor were there friends or family in my life to whom I could turn.

As I sat at my keyboard, the thought that emerged was, oh if I had even a memory of a mother who loved me unconditionally, the sort of love that wraps you up like a blanket, sits you in its lap and makes it clear it has all the time in the world for you… and then heals you. I had written chapter one in Book One: Where It Began, and in chapter 2 who stepped forward to take over the position of protagonist but a quirky, illiterate, yet discerning Black housekeeper, one, who I would come to learn, had been given a deathbed behest by her mother to carry on with the tradition her female lineage had carried for generations, that being to love the world.

Mary Oliver said it this way:


My work is loving the world.
Here the sunflowers, there the hummingbird —
equal seekers of sweetness.
Here the quickening yeast; there the blue plums.
Here the clam deep in the speckled sand.

Are my boots old? Is my coat torn?
Am I no longer young, and still not half-perfect?
Let me keep my mind on what matters,
which is my work,

which is mostly standing still and learning to be
The phoebe, the delphinium. The sheep in the pasture, and the pasture.
Which is mostly rejoicing, since all ingredients are here,

which is gratitude, to be given a mind
and a heart
and these body-clothes,
a mouth with which to give shouts of joy
to the moth and the wren, to the sleepy dug-up clam,
telling them all, over and over,
how it is that we live forever.

There stood Mrs. Imogene Ware, a woman who will cure what ails you, make you laugh as she talks to her cart horse or the mockingbirds on her way; and by her example, through the blistering events of the second half of the 20th century, show you what the path of love looks and feels like. She doesn’t care what color you are, or your age, or rank, or the meanness of your ways, you will be included in her world of love. Accidents of Birth is your story as well as mine and Miss Imogene’s for it refers to the greatest experience of happenstance to which we humans are subjected—where and to whom we are born. We have no choice in this. We have only to choose whether to play the hand or fold.

Very few of us ever had a Miss Imogene to light our lamp or wait for us in the dark, often at her very own peril. This trilogy is not just a story of love but also a place of love which you can revisit anytime you become confused or stymied. I go talk with Miss Imogene often and now you can too. Book One is being serialized on Venture Galleries, and I invite you to an experience of love you might not yet have ever known, but within a story of a reality you do know—living in American from the ’50s to the turn of the century in which we live now—only this time seeing it through the eyes of a Black woman who I promise you, you will come to love beyond imagining.

Read the episodes posted thus far on Venture Galleries.
Episodes are posted each Tuesday.

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I would truly love to hear your comments of your experience of Miss Imogene.

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  1. Can I just say Thank You Christina, for being in our lives, and for sharing your heart with us?

  2. It’s abundantly clear that you have taken on Mary Oliver’s “work” for yourself. Even though you have no memory of motherlove yourself, you have capably taken on the job though you never had the experience – in this life, at least. Your spirit knew what to do all along, and so many of us have been the very grateful recipients! As Forrest Gump said, “I KNOW what love is…” You do, too, lovely Christina. You ARE love. We feel it in every blessed word that you write!! You have such a pure heart. I don’t know that there’s another in this world about whom that can be said. Lucky me to be able to call you my friend!!

    • Christina Carson

      The button says Reply, though I’m not sure I can. I’m rather human but I have my moments, but so do you, my dear.

  3. We can long for that which we have never had, but are ever in need, and then we ultimately need to give it to ourselves. I believe you are doing that Christina, through a character you create. Our characters are a part of us, I don’t know how they cannot be. So, in a way, you are healing yourself through your own love and words. How beautiful you are, and thank you for sharing your beauty, love and healing with us. I need it too.

    • Christina Carson

      I agree. In the end, it always comes down to that – healing oneself. What I marvel at are the amazing resources we have to do that and the fascinating forms they take. Thank you MK. You have joined with two other amazing women to share your love as well. Aren’t we blessed.

Thoughtful comments are always welcome!


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